I can’t be the only one who thinks the look of pain and fear can be a beautiful thing. The face is like an instrument panel that gives constant feedback. The scrunched brow, closed eyes, wrinkeled nose, clenched teath, and especially the involuntary open mouth yelping in pain are like the lights and dials of our insturment panel. Spanking wouldn’t be much fun without this feedback. Humans (well most) have a natural ability to feel empathy with one who is suffering. When I look into the eyes and face of a bottom I’ve spanked I experience strong feelings – as though the emotions of the spankee are transfered to me. I think this emotional feedback and psychic transfer between bottom and top allow a very special bond to occur that is unique among us spankos.